Fear

The only way to conquer fear is to face it.

Being human, we all have fears. Things we can't help but be afraid of eventhough we know it is safe. We are still afraid. Like fear of heights. No matter how many strings are tied around us, we still fear it.

Most probably because it is something beyond our comfort zone. Something that no matter how many coaxing by others, if we are not willing to conquer it, there's no way anyone can change our mind about it.

The month of December is known internationally as the World AIDS month. This is the time of the year where volunteers not only try to reach out to those who are facing this struggle but also to reach out to those who believes knowing nothing is better than knowing and those who are afraid to even speak it's name.

HIV does not discriminate.

Today, 15 of us went as volunteers to Wangsa Walk, A shopping mall somewhere in KL to try to increase awareness within the community. I think the most enlightening thing was to actually listen to the people talk about HIV and to see their response when someone wearing a sandwich board written "I'm HIV positive, Will you hug me?" approach them.

Probably the best thing anyone can learn from here is that fear is a big element that blocks understanding. Don't deny, if someone mentioned that they are HIV positive, eventhough you put on a "It's ok" front, hundred of thoughts are running through your head. You're are wondering "Did I drink anything that person drank," "That person hug me recently, do you think they could be somewhere I could get infected then," "Am I infected already?"

It's alright to fear scared. It's actually normal. But running away is not the solution. Stigmatizing is not the solution. It's facing it, learning about it and trying to help people who might be infected by it.

Sometimes, the best way to learn is to work closely with this people.

Just like heights, as soon as you let go and jump you realize that the only thing holding you back is you.

Today, I learn to conquer my fear. :)

What matter most

Did you change the course of your destiny? Or has the course of the destiny change you?

We make decisions everyday, some that bring us coser to what we want, and some that brings us further. No one can determine whether this effect is only temporary or something that would last for the rest of your life.

Even if at this point it feels like the effect are not that great, maybe just maybe in a day, a week, a month or maybe years to come, this might have been the best decision you ever made.

Sometimes people question our decisions and we start having second thoughts about it. No one is free from that feeling. No one is free from falling.Yes to others, it's silly, but we thought it through and we know that this is just right, maybe not to others but to ourselves. Isn't it what matter most?

Does Your Heart Listens to You?

I know sometimes, mine doesn't.

It's not something entirely good or bad, even if the famous saying does actually goes that "You should always follow your heart."

Sometimes my mind tells me to let go but my heart says otherwise. Most of the time my heart wins though I think I should have a change of heart, literally speaking of course.

But it's because of our hearts that chooses never to give up, eventhough it seems like sometimes we are only chasing our untouchable dreams that defy our rational thinking that it could never happen, that we have planes, lights, car and electric today.

Sometimes Dreams can become Realities :)

Product of the system

Myc asked me to read this blog and she almost never introduce things to people without knowing it's really, really good so there I was reading a blog titled Product of the system and it was really enlightening.

As a onlooker, I don't think I reserve the rights to say whose fault is it because I wasn't there. Doctors are merely humans. And doctors does not own a singular personality that all doctors should have. There are different type of doctors in this world.

We don't have to look to far away to see how out future doctors will be. Just look at some of the private medical Universities here. You can see varying personalities. Some of them goes clubbing till late at night and some which burn the midnight oil. Doesn't mean that those who go clubbing and party till late at night would not be good doctors. They might be really a good one, one day. Same goes to those who burn the midnight oil, they might be good doctors and also maybe not. It's not what they study that determines what type of doctor they will be one day, but the aptitude of themselves.

Not many people can handle dealing with another person's life and that's what makes doctor special because instead of running away from a dying person, you have to run towards them and try to save their life. Not everything is glam and pretty like you see on medical dramas on television. Things are often bleaker, darker. The only thing glamorous about being a doctor in Malaysia is the title Doctor and nothing else.

Having said that, I truly believe one thing about doctors. Anybody who have sat through five years of medicine truly wants to help people. It's not an easy road. I'm sure nobody wants to caused the death of someone. Having said that, anyone who chose this line of occupation should be humble and willing to learn. We are only human. They is only so much we can do and if we can't perform to the best of our abilities, it's time we reach out for help from others. We might have the knowledge to help save a person's life, but we're not God.

Working

I just started working in a Law firm this week. So if you're wondering why I suddenly stop making appearances o Facebook and MSN, here's the reason why. My working hours are 9 to 6 and by the time I reach home from an hour long jam, I feel exhausted so I don't come online. :)

Working life is really different. :)

Update more when i'm free ya.

Mind Your English

Just few years back, the government converted the teaching of Maths and Science from Bahasa Malaysia to English. And within that few years, some parents have objected and some teachers complained that it was such a difficult task to do.

Recently however, after the Ministry have had enough of complains, they decided to convert teaching Maths and Science from English to Bahasa Malaysia. And within the next few days of that announcements, some parents objected and some teachers complained that changing from one language to another is a difficult task to do.

So where does this end? Everytime someone complains, the higher ups will switch just so they can please the people. And if they can't they will start "reviewing it," and "setting up special comittee." And if that doesn't work, "We have decided to switch it back after listening to the people." And after doing that, they are displeasing the other party who have originally supported the idea. When will it end?

If the higher ups really wants to do what's best for the people, they should do what's best for the people and not what is preceived "The best" to get them the votes. Yes, teaching Maths and Science in English might be a tough task to do, but it will gurantee that they, the future generations will be well equiped to face globalisation.

For all the talk about being well equipped for the globalisation and to be the first world country, brushing up our English language is very Important. Speaking on personal experience, once we enter college or Pre-university, especially for Science students, it is a challenge to master scientific terms in English.

I mean, at first I didn't know
Radius=Jejari

Fumes=Wasap

Imagine entering University not knowing this and learning this from the basic. That's being unfair to the students. And honestly, approxiamtely 80% to 90% of the students goes to college after Form 5 doing A' levels, SAM and Foundations. Even Maths and Science in form 6 and Matriculation are taught in English, so what's the point of learning in Bahasa Malaysia first and making the switch later on after almost 11 years of being taught in a completely different language?

And in the first place, English should be made a Compulsory Pass subject for SPM. I thought it was until read the newspaper.

If they really care about the people, they'll know that mastering English is the least they could do for them to prepare them for the future.

And Imagine the horror when I read this:

MJ rest in PIECE.

And imagine, 11 years from now theywant to have a solid economical platform without solid English.

Anyways, here are some english bloopers.



When Punctuation matters! (Pics from Innocentenglish.com)

And some from around the World!

Advertising billboard: "Are you an adult that cannot read? If so, we can help".

Hotel, Bukarest: "The lift is being fixed for the next day. During that time we regret that you will be unbearable".

Hotel, Japan: "You are invited to take advantage of the chambermaid".

Sign at Germany's Black Forrest: "It is strictly forbidden on our black forrest camping site that people of different sex, for instance, men and women, live together in one tent unless they are married with each other for this purpose".

Travel agency, Czech republic: "Take one of our horse-driven city tours. We guarantee no miscarriages".

Airline office add, Copenhagen: "We take your bags and send them in all directions".

Read more at International English Blunder!

See you Later.. :)

I know you'll do well in life so don't ever give up! Jia You! :)

P.s. I know you won't open it until you reach there :)

Wedding Dinner

Last Saturday I went for a Wedding in V Garden Restaurant in Klang. It was the first wedding dinner I've been too in a while so I was pretty excited :) I miss the last wedding dinner early this year because my friend's birthday clashed and promised people already ma.

The nicest thing about wedding is seeing the couple and how their wedding will be. This one was really different because the couple came in singing to each other and it was so, so sweet :) The background music was just as romantic. It's "I do cherish you," by 98 degree :)

The food was really, really good and the servings were generous!

And best of all, I get to dress up! :):) Haha, this is one of the bestest things about weddings! And the taking pictures part too!

The way we are

Sometimes you look at another person and sigh with disappointment at their accomplishments. Yet we never look at ourselves and say "Look at me, see how much I have accomplished."

We always measure ourselves to another person. If they have accomplished something we haven't, we'll feel like we have not done anything when if fact we have.

I think it's human nature to always want something that are not theirs. What you see of others is just the tip of the iceberg. They don't tell you the hardship they face in order to succeed, the time where they were at their lowest. All you see is them at the pinnacles of their life and nothing more. But remember, everyone has to work for what they want.

If someone close to you has met an International celebrity no matter how much you don't like that celebrity you'll feel jealous. Why? Cause that is something you have not done. But what if I tell you to look at the bigger picture. This person is training to be an international hairdresser and their work involves cutting hair for the celebrities. Is it your dream to be an International hairdresser? It might be theirs and their career will be filled with meeting International superstars but it is not yours. You might have took whatever you choose to do be it doctor, lawyer, baker, businessmen or cook because it is your passion. Just like them. And it is your passion that will fuel you forward to be the best. If you were to want to give up everything to achieve the same things they did and your passion does not lies in it and you're just harping on the perks that comes with it, you'll still be where you are right now. They will be the happiest person in the World when they do their job, but you might not take the same pleasure as them cause it is not your passion.

If someone tells you that you're not cut out for it, what do they know. It's not them who is living the rest of YOUR life. You know what's best for yourself. Of course, you should not be blinded by dreams as sometimes reality can be harsh on them. But reality does not destroy dreams, it destroys faith, trust and courage to chase your dreams. Your dreams will always be there as long as you want it to be. Yes, they might be many crossroads in life and you might get lost admist it but if you persist, you'll reach it.

Don't chase other people dreams, chase your own. Yes, you can feel envy of them, but just let it end at that. You'll never know, they might envy you for the choices you make in your life too :)

Because;

When we keep looking at other people and see how much they have accomplished we tend to look past ourselves and see how much we accomplished.
















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Keep your head and you heart in the right direction and you'll never have to worry about your feet.














There is no failure, ONLY FEEDBACK

















Don't limit your challenges- Challenge your limits.
















If you can Dream it, You can do it. Always remember that this whole thing was started with A Dream and A Mouse.

Doctor, Engineer or Genius?

I got this through an e-mail from my friend in Australia :)

I was reading the start about how engineer takes 30 seconds to figure it out and a doctor in six hours, I got really, really fire up to solve it! The moment I look at it I knew the solution instantaneously. I'm not joking! :D

I took less than 30 seconds and i'm not an engineer! I'm a future doctor.

Either i'm good cause STPM train me or maybe I should consider a career in engineering! :) Or maybe i'm a genius?? Hahahaha

Too bad it requires me to download the new version of Microsoft Office or I would have enter my name in the wall of fame!

This is a mathematical challenge, and it's been said that:

If you're an engineer, you should be able to solve it in (under) three minutes (more like 30 seconds), if you're an architect, in three hours; if you're a doctor, in six hours; if you're an accountant, in three months and if you're a lawyer, probably never.
if you're good at math or logical problems, solve this challenge and the answer is the password to open the spreadsheet to which you can add your name to the hall of fame.
What is the missing number in this logical series?
1, 2, 6, 42, 1806, ____???
The answer is the password to open the spreadsheet that is attached to this email. If you figure it out, open the spreadsheet, type your name in, save it and resend it to your friends.
Good luck!

Background Change

If you noticed the switch in background, it came with a very good reason. I was literally blinding others and being blinded by the first background so I decided to change it eventhough it was a really nice background.. :)

MagMyPic

Create Fake Magazine Covers with your own picture at MagMyPic.com

Chasing the Stars

It's already that time of the year where we say goodbye to each other and this time we'll really mean it.

For those of you who are entering University for the course of their choice, Congratulations! :)

And for those of you who will enter soon, Jia You! It's going to be whole new world for all of us :) New faces, new environment and new you.

For those who have yet to decide what course will they take, Just stay true to your heart. That's all it takes for you to decide. :)

I'm truly going to miss all of you as we embark on different path in life. Every chapter has a start and an ending and this chapter has ended, but our story continues.

As we chase our dreams, don't forget our star belongs to the same sky :)

True to My Heart

I've been searching for so long for a background like this. It's almost the same as I envisioned it to be, except for the colour and the way it looks. It was something by chance. I had this blog site set up a very long time ago but never found the opportunity to use it.

Before Livejournal, I was a blogspot-er. That was until the end of form 5 when I set up a livejournal account to comment on my friends blog. Initially it was just for commenting on my friends journal until I decided to post up a picture, and the rest is history. I became a avid livejournal blogger. :)

But giving up blogspot was not easy. I learnt a lot of html codes while I was using blogspot. My blog was raining snows and had moving icons and lots of perks, something they don't offer in livejournal. I was limited to the design they give, and any addition in the html code requires you to pay. So I was pretty stuck. I wanted to revert to blogspot, but for my friends convenience, I decided to stick to livejournal until now cause it's time for a change, and I found the background that I wanted for so long, Whether by chance or destiny,

I want to be True to MY heart. :)